Abner

Who he was
Abner was the son of Ner and the cousin of King Saul, Israel's first monarch. He served as the commander of Saul's army (1 Samuel 14:50–51). Abner was a prominent figure during Saul's reign and demonstrated his loyalty to the king, as seen in his interactions with David (1Sa.17.55-57; 20.25; 26.5-15).
After Saul's death, Abner supported Saul's son Ish-bosheth as king over Israel, while David reigned over Judah (2 Samuel 2:8–10). During this time, there was a long war between the houses of Saul and David (2 Samuel 3:1). Abner led Ish-bosheth's forces against David's army, commanded by Joab (2 Samuel 2:12–17). In a battle at Gibeon, Abner killed Joab's brother Asahel, who had pursued him (2 Samuel 2:18–23).
Later, Abner defected to David after a dispute with Ish-bosheth (2 Samuel 3:6–21). He worked to transfer the kingdom to David and made an agreement with him (2 Samuel 3:12–21). However, Joab, seeking revenge for his brother's death, murdered Abner (2 Samuel 3:22–27). David mourned Abner's death and declared his innocence in the matter (2 Samuel 3:28–39).
Abner's defection and death weakened Ish-bosheth's position, and he was eventually assassinated (2 Samuel 4:1–8). This paved the way for David to become king over all Israel (2 Samuel 5:1–5). David later reminded Solomon of Joab's actions against Abner (1Ki.2.5, 32). Abner is also mentioned in connection with the treasures dedicated to the Lord (1 Chronicles 26:28) and as the father of Jaasiel, a leader in David's army (1 Chronicles 27:21).
Family
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1 Samuel9 mentions
2 Samuel40 mentions
1 Kings2 mentions
1 Chronicles2 mentions
What the dictionary says
Father of light; i.e., “enlightening”, the son of Ner and uncle of Saul.
Sources
- STEPBible TIPNR · Translators Individualised Proper Names with all References · CC BY 4.0 · github.com/STEPBible/STEPBible-Data
- Hitchcock's Bible Names Dictionary (1869) · Public domain